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Sunday, September 6, 2009

mehn

am in trouble.. am lusting after my frnds boyfriend. i tried to make a deal with God. i felt like if i stay away from the things i really enjoy, that he will make it stop. this my method usually works for me so i thought the same will apply in this serious situation.. So i stayed away from twitter and blogging-- even reading blogs! i stayed away for like 3 weeks.. i had not even seen the dude or my friend for a long while nw; till yesterday..

the thing is that i had dated the boy before.. but i dndt tell her because she would have used that as an excuse not to date him. and i lied because i thought i was over him =/. plus she really really liked the dude..
i dont know what else to do.. i cant keep hiding and avoiding my friend and the dude..

i hope it will pass..
xx

14 comments:

Rene said...

wot?
something not so similar has happened 2 me....i neva datd d guy. i dont think staying away is going to help matters

tunrayo said...

thats some pretty fix you are in. don't think avoiding them is the solution. You have to face your 'problems' full on. and i know how you might hate to hear this, but i think you should tell your friend. i have been in a similar situation (but in my case i was your friend) Keep us updated tho

RocNaija said...

You'll be in more trouble if he knows where your mind is..

Fabulo-la said...

@Roc..foreal..but then what should she do?
To tell her friend, or not to tll her friend, cause you know the girl is just going to go right back and tell him...

Nameless...easy o..Find something to occupy yourself...

GiDiPwInCeSs said...

yuhhh distract urself... they say out of sight is out of mind... i hope that works...

leggy said...

i dont think you should tell your friend cos personally i think the feelings will pass..just dont avoid them and oneday your going to look up and wonder 'what the f did i see in this guy?'

BSNC said...

I hope the feelings pass too.

nameless said...

@rene- i knw.. :( x

@tunrayo- true.. but tell her wht part? the fact that we dated or that i cant get him out of my head? :-( x

@roc- am sure he already knows.. and that is the scariest part.. x

@fabulo-la and @gidipwincess- i try to.. but me and my frnd always hang out-- so now its me her nd him.. akward =/ x

@leggy- am honestly feeling u- i dnt wanna say anything to her about it. x

@BSNC- amen oo.. x

histreasure said...

it's not a good idea to tell her becos she might feel u r upto something esp as u have a previously undisclosed history(shd've told on that earlier on~)

be sure not to act on the feeling tho..cos it'l pass, definitely

Sumptuous said...

thou shall not covet ur neighbours property o. first time here and i like.

nameless said...

@ histreasure-- i hope so

thanks sumptuous!!

Lyrics said...

I always want what i cant have. So whenever i start wanting such things,i say to myself 'i always want what i cant have'. Try it

misspumping said...

Can i say been down that road and done that. Hope it does not turn out the way mine did the guy was a low life

nameless said...

@ lyrics-- i will thanks :)

@misspumping-- wot happened in the end??

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